The pattern you argued with

Every pattern card asks "Does this sound like you?" and plenty of people tap "Not really".

Sometimes that's us getting it wrong. Sometimes it's a pattern that takes a while to recognise, usually because someone close to you would say yes before you would.

Which one did you push back on? Did you change your mind later, or do you still think we missed?

(We read these. "Not really" is how the pattern detection gets better.)